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נייער האטליין נומער - New Hotline Number

איך האב בעזרת השם א נייעם נומער פאר די האַטליין ‑ With G-d's help I have a new Hotline number

262-3714 (951)

מען ברויך מער נישט צו רופען נאכאמאל ווען מען וויל הערן אן אנדערען שיעור
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?Do you know where your children are

אויב איינער מאלעסטעד דיך אדער דיין קינד, רוף דעם נומער: 718-330-5600 NYPD Sex Crimes Unit,

If someone molests you or your child Call : NYPD Sex Crimes Unit, 718-330-5600

In other areas, call the appropriate Law Enforcement Authorities

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תקנות פון בלאג: יעדער קען שרייבען תגובות, אבער נישט קיין ניבול פה, באליידיגען אדער סטראשענען, ווער עס וועט נישט איינהאלטען די תקנות וועט מען חוסם זיין.
.Rules of the Blog: Everybody is welcome to write comments, however no vulgar language, insults or threats will be tolerated, you will be banned immediately
Do NOT keep changing your Nick when writing comments, I can recognize you and will ban you
If you are aware of any molestation in the Jewish community, please report it to the proper authorities, and then please send us an emil with as many details as possible, so we can follow up and warn the Tzibur
This Blog is here for a purpose - to fight pedophilia and znus, not for snide remarks, filthy comments or threats

וועם עס געפעלט נישט וואס איך שרייב אדער זאג אויף דע האטליין האט א ברירה זיך זעצן לערנען

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4/30/2011

נאך א חזיר - Another PIG

    
Joseph Gelbman
The New York State Police at Monroe announce the arrest of: JOSEPH GELBMAN, age 52, 191 Gibber Road, Kiamesha Lake, New York, 12751. GELBMAN was charged with Sexual Abuse 3rd degree, Forcible Touching and Endangering the Welfare of a Child, all misdemeanors. The investigation revealed that on Thursday, April 14, 2011, GELBMAN drove a fourteen (14) year old male to the America’s Best Value Inn located in the Town of Woodbury and had sexual contact with the victim. ’s date by the Town of Woodbury Justice Hasin and released on $1,500.00 cash bail to reappear on 04/27/11.

4/28/2011

Public Hearing On NY Child Sexual Abuse Bill Friday Morning

Marge Markey croppedM.E.D.I.A   A.D.V.I.S.O.R.Y  for  10:00 a.m.  F.R.I.D.A.Y  A.P.R.I.L 29, 2011

WHO: NY State Assembly Codes Committee,
Chairman Joseph Lentol and Assemblywoman Margaret Markey

WHAT: Public Hearing on Child Sexual Abuse Bill and
NY State Statute of Limitations

WHEN: 10:00 am to 12 Noon, Friday, April 29, 2011
WHERE: Assembly Hearing Room, Room 1923, 19th Floor, State Office Building, 250 Broadway, Lower Manhattan, New York City

BACKGROUND: Assemblywoman Markey’s Child Victims Act of New York (A5488) would extend the current NY State civil and criminal statute of limitations on child sexual abuse crimes. Those testifying at this hearing will speak about the impact of these crimes on victims and their families as well as the economic cost to government and society.

They will speak about the range of support and services that are provided by public agencies and non-profit organizations, often throughout the lifetime of victims. Among those who will speak to the committee or present written testimony are:
·        Dr. Ted Miller of Public Services Research Institute (PIRE), co-author, National Institute for Justice report and other studies on economic cost of crime victimization;
·        Henry Miller, past president, NYS Bar Association and author of recent Bar Journal article on statute of limitations laws;
·        former Philadelphia District Attorney Lynne Abraham and an official from the office of current District Attorney Seth Williams;
·        John Jay College psychologist Cynthia Culkins Mercado;
·        Professor Marci Hamilton, Cardozo Law School of Yeshiva University, author and expert on statute of limitations laws in America;
·        A representative of Queens County District Attorney Richard Brown;
·        And leaders from Safe Horizon, Downstate Coalition of Crime Victims, Mt. Sinai Adolescent Health Center, NYC Alliance Against Sexual Abuse, among others.

Assemblywoman Markey said: “Childhood sexual abuse has a horrendous personal impact on victims and their families. We hope to better understand how all of society is affected by these crimes by hearing from experts about the services and support that are provided by government agencies and non-profit organizations.” 

For media information call: Michael Armstrong, 718-651-3185, 917-279-8437

4/22/2011

להציל עשוק מיד עושקו


מפני קדושת המועד וקדושתן של ילדי ישראל
ווי מע האט מיר איבערגעגעבען זענען די רבנים וואס זענען אינטערגעשריבן אויף דעם בריף פערזענליך אריבערגעגאנגען צום סאטמארער רבי'ן פין וויליאמסבורג הרה"צ ר' זלמן לייב שליט"א פרעגען היתכן משה גבאי האט גע'מסר'ט א איד? האט ער געענטפערט אז ער האט נישט איבער עהם קיין שום שליטה, זענען זיי געגאנגען צו די דיינים ר' ישרא' חיים מנשה און ר' זלמן לייב פיליפּ און ר' שלמה לייב וויינבערגער און זיי האבן געענטפערט אז מען זאל גיין צום רבי'ן ווייל ער איז בעל הבית. 
     איצטער פרעגט זיך די שאלה ווער איז טאקע בעל הבית? אפשר משה גבאי?
     אין א שיינעם טאג קען מען הערען אז משה האט איינגעזעצט רז"ל אליינס (בבחינת רבם דקרו).


4/15/2011

והי' כאשר ירים משה את ידו וגבר ישראל - Breaking News

   
אז משה גבאי גייט זאגען פאר א גרענד דזשורי אז קעלנער האט עהם געשיקט צו די לעבאוויטשעס בעטען געלט, האט כלל ישראל א נצחון און דער מנובל ומוכה שחין נואף זורק מילות כלפי מעלה בארעך מארדחע - ארור המן וועט זיצען די גאנצע 32 יאר אין חד גדיא, ער וועט אויכעט נישט קענען עפענען די טיר צי שפוך חמתך.
The Appellate court just ruled that there is NO appeal for B.M. Lebovits and he will אי"ה remain in jail for the next 31 years. Moshe Terrorist Gabay good try, Just remember that lying before a Grand Jury is perjury.
     According to my sources, Moshe Friedman (Gabbe) and Meir Lebovits (son of BML) are mentioned as witnesses on the Grand Jury indictment of Samuel Kellner, I wonder if only snitching on a molester constitutes mesirah.
   

4/14/2011

והיה כאשר יניח משה את ידו וגבר עמלק

   
אינץ האלטמער אצינד ביי וגבר עמלק, אבער נישט געזארגט, עס וועט בקרוב זיין וגבר ישראל. צוליב פארשטענדליכע טעמים (קיינער ברויך נישט וויסען וואס איך ווייס יא אדער נישט) קען איך נישט זאגען מער פון דעם, אבער נישט געזארגט Justice will prevail.
     דערווייל איז מלאך המות בעיר כלבים צועקים, גיט אבאכט אויף די קינדער און בחורים, ווייל כאטשיג ער איז אין house arrest ווער ווייסט וואס די רשעים זענען עלול צו טוהן.
     דער רבוש"ע זאל העלפען אז מען זאל בקרוב פטור ווערען פונעם שאור שבעיסה, און עס זאל זיין ואת רוח הטומאה אעביר מן הארץ.
   

4/12/2011

הושיעה את עמך Drugs

לעצטע וואך מיטוואך האט זיך נעבעך א היימיש מיידעל פון 18 - 19 יאר אלט overdruged, מען האט זי געפינען טויט. נעכטען מאנטיג איז געווען די קבורה אין חסד של אמת. די רבנים און עסקנים קענען נישט זאגען "ידינו לא שפכו את הדם הזה", ווילאנג מע וועט באהאלטען די פראבלעמען און רודפ'ען די וואס זאגען אויס, וועלען פאלען קרבנות. די סקווערע האבען טאקע מורא אז די וועלט וועט אונטערגיין האבען זיי זיך געלערענט פון לוט'ס טעכטער און האבען שון קינדער ביי די 12 יאר.
די קעלבערנע רבנים דארפען ברענגען א עגלה ערופה
    
A heimishe girl of 18-19 years old, was found last week Wednesday, Apr. 6 dead from an overdose of drugs. Yesterday, Monday, she was buried in the Chesed Shel Emes cemetary. Our rabbies will  not be able to say "Our hands did not shed this blood." As long as we will sweep the problems under the carpet, and harrass victims and those that report crimes, there will be more fatalities. It seems that in New Square they took the same approach as Lot's daughters in saving the worlds population, the new trend is for 12 year old girls to become pregnant.

4/11/2011

כנגד ארבעה בנים דברה תורה

Jewish Board of Advocates for Children
The Four Sons in regard to sexual abuse in the frum community:

1) The Chochom asks, "What are the halachos in regard to child sexual abuse?" These are the ones who seek and follow the Pseiki Halacha of the Gedolim. They establish safety protocols and make sure to report the rodfim directly to the police.

2) The Rasha challenges the survivors, asking, "What are you doing to us? Don't you know your allegations will harm the reputation of the community?" These are the rodfim and those who have been enabling them.

3) The Tam claims that such things do not and cannot happen in our frum communities. These are the ones who deny that we could have such problems and exclaim, "It is NOT possible."

4) The Sheinu Yoadie Lishol has no voice. These are the survivors who do not have the freedom to express how they have been repeatedly abused by a community that refuses to help them and has instead covered up for these dangerous criminals. Many are no longer coming to any seder. This could also refer to all of our vulnerable kinderlach whose innocence has not yet been destroyed by the perpetrators among us. The most basic prevention education - that predators are rarely strangers - could help protect countless more than four sons.

4/10/2011

היכי דמי א "חשוב'ער בחור"


Daddy ... It hurts


http://www.msplinks..com/MDFodHRwOi8vcGhvdG9idWNrZXQuY29tL2ltYWdlcy9jaGlsZCUyMGFidXNl

My name is Chris ,
I am three,
My eyes are swollen..
I cannot see.
I must be stupid,
I must be bad,
 What else could have made,
My daddy so mad?
I wish I were better,
I wish I weren't ugly,
Then maybe my Mommy,
Would still want to hug me.
I can't do a wrong,
I can't speak at all,
Or else I'm locked up,
All day long.
When I'm awake,
I'm all alone,
The house is dark,
My folks aren't home.
When my Mom does come home,
I'll try and be nice,
So maybe I'll just get,
One whipping tonight.
I just heard a car,
My daddy is back,
From Charlie's bar
I hear him curse,
My name is called ,
I press myself,
Against the wall.
I try to hide,
From his evil eyes,
I'm so afraid now,
I'm starting to cry.
He finds me weeping,
Calls me ugly words,
He says it’s my fault,
He suffers at work.
He slaps and hits me,
And yells at me more,
I finally get free,
And run to the door.
He's already locked it,
And I start to bawl,
He takes me and throws me,
Against the hard wall.
I fall to the floor,
With my bones nearly broken,
And my daddy continues,
With more bad words spoken.
'I'm sorry!', I scream,
But it's now much too late,
His face has been twisted,
Into a unimaginable shape.
The hurt and the pain,
Again and again,
O please God, have mercy!
O please let it end!
And he finally stops,
And heads for the door,
While I lay there motionless,
Sprawled on the floor.
My name is Chris,
I am three,
Tonight my daddy,
Murdered me.
And you can help,
You would have to be,
One heartless person,
Not to be affected,
By this Poem.
And because you ARE affected,
Do something about it!
So all I ask you to do,
Is pass this on!
IF YOU ARE AGAINST CHILD ABUSE!
Post this as 'Daddy ... It hurts'
At least 5 children each day from around the world die from child abuse!!!!

FREE PESACH SEDERS TO FAMILIES WHO HAVE SUFFERED ABUSE

 
הִנֵּה מַה טּוֹב וּמַה נָּעִים שֶׁבֶת אַחִים גַּם יָחַד
The Voices of Justice will be hosting Pesach 2011 this Yom Tov, at a beautiful shul in the 9th avenue vicinity, on Boro Park. This safe and healthy environment is open for parents and people who suffered from domestic abuse or have been a victim of child abuse. It will be an interesting and  inspiring event, with two sedarim. The easy-going program goes along with a schedule specifically for everyone to be at their own pace. A variety of foods will be prepared by willing volunteers, most of them victims who have the desire to be needed, in a safe place where they will not be judged. Space is limited, so please call Ms henne or Mark meyer appel at 1-800-958 2904  to reserve your space.
 
  


A SPECIAL THANKS TO THE METROPOLITAN COUNCIL ON JEWISH POVERTY
FOR THEIR HELP AND DONATION FOR THIS  'SEDER OF FREEDOM'
    

4/08/2011

ארבעט ער אפשר פאר די וועד הצניעות? - ?Does He Perhaps Work For the Vaad HaTznius



4/07/2011

קוקטס ווער עס דארף העלפען ישיבה בחורים מיט תורה און פרנסה

     
  • Published 01:32 07.04.11
  • Latest update 01:32 07.04.11

State offering yeshiva dropouts lessons in Torah - and technology

Education Ministry budgets NIS 19 million to set up a high school program that will combine core classes with religious studies for 500 Haredi teenagers.

By Lior Dattel
The Education Ministry plans to include 500 Haredi teenagers in a technology matriculation program next school year.
The program will combine core classes with religious studies, and is intended for 15- to 16-year-old boys who dropped out of yeshivas.
The ministry is budgeting NIS 19 million to set up 20 classes at high schools around the country.
Over the next few days, the ministry will be calling on local authorities and education networks to submit candidates to take part in the program. Schools will be chosen based on criteria set by the ministry, which will give them an extra budget to absorb the new students.
"There are ultra-Orthodox children who have left the yeshivas and have nowhere else to learn. If we don't create a way for them to work, they won't be able to join the labor market since they lack basic skills," said Dr. Ofer Ramon, head of the science and technology administration at the Education Ministry. "We're offering a program that can give the ultra-Orthodox everything - religious studies and employment options. The program has been suited to the community."
The program will include 14 matriculation points, including seven in technological fields such as computer science, vehicular engineering, electronics and electricity, as well as points in English and math.
Rabbis will teach the students religious subjects.
Participants will be able to continue their education at vocational schools to receive an engineering or technical certificate. Currently, very few ultra-Orthodox institutions teach English or math.
The program is part of the ministry's plan to improve science and technology studies. It intends to increase the program's budget over the next several years so it will cover the students' high-school years and be able to grow.
While a small number of ultra-Orthodox high-schoolers are currently preparing for technology matriculation exams, it's not clear whether members of this community will sign up en masse.
The Education Ministry, however, believes they'll come.
"The process is very important for the economy, for society and for the labor market," said Education Minister Gideon Sa'ar. "The program enables religious studies alongside preparation for a technological certificate, and will enable the students to continue on to higher education and give them excellent tools for the labor market."
According to the Taub Center for Social Policy Studies in Israel, the percentage of adult Haredi men not working has more than tripled in three decades; in 2008 it was 65%, up from 21% in 1979. As of 2009, 25% of children were studying at Haredi institutions.
Over the past several years, more Haredim have been entering the workforce, but ultra-Orthodox job-seekers often run into problems due to a lack of relevant education and skills.

טאטע לעבען איך וויל דיך פיער קשיות פרעגען - Daddy I want to ask you the four KASHAS

 

Four Questions

These four questions remain the same from last year.  This highlights our lack of progress, despite tiny cracks being made in the wall of silence. 
Victims are still enslaved because of the abuse that continues in their beds, in their bunks and in their basements.  Victims are still enslaved because their dangerous perpetrators are still at large in our communities.  And victims remain enslaved because of the lack of outrage from a rabbinical leadership that cares more about our image than our children.  With a very minimal effort from our rabbinical leaders, so many lives could be saved.
Pesach celebrates our freedom from abuse.  That explains why it is an especially painful time for all those who are still enslaved by it.
Next year may there be no need for these type of questions anymore.
Mah Nishtana: The Four Questions of Our Children, Some of Whom Are No Longer at the Seder
Why is the molestation and sexual abuse of children treated differently than all other communal issues?
1) In all other areas of halacha (Jewish Law), the highest level of tznius (modesty) and morality is enforced, but in this area of halacha - the rape and destruction of children is ignored.
2) In all other areas of kashrus, the highest level of reliability, certification and supervision is demanded, but in the sanctity of our children's own bodies - no serious nor expeditious regard is given.
3) In all other matters, Halacha as interpreted by the poskim is followed, but when poskim such as Rav Yosef Sholom Elyashiv, Rav Zalman Nechemia Goldberg and Rav Herschel Schachter  and [Rav Mendel Shafran] give p’sakim urging victims of sexual abuse to report their abusers to the police - these poskim are ignored and victims are vilified in favor of supporting the molesters.
4) In all other areas of a child's life, organizations fight and demand for their rights (e.g., lobbying for busing, textbooks, school lunch programs, tuition credits) but when it comes to the sexual abuse of children - some of the same organizations turn a deaf ear and lobby to protect the abusers of our children.
And a fifth question:
How many more Sedorim must we endure, how many more years must pass, how many more neshamas must we lose, before we are finally allowed to go Mavdous Lcheirus, from slavery to true freedom from our CHILDRENS' abusers?

מען טאר נישט רעדען אויף רבנים, הא? - ?You Are Not Allowed To Talk On Rabbonin, Ha

     
20:36 , 04.06.11

 
 

Under Investigation
Photo: AFP Rabbi detained (Archive) Photo: AFP




Did rabbi sexually assault bride?

Jerusalem rabbi arrested over suspected indecent acts against newlywed bride, later released into house arrest
Yair Altman

Well-known Jerusalem Rabbi David Tovol was arrested last Sunday on suspicions that he committed indecent acts against a newlywed bride who sought his advice, Ynet has learned.

According to suspicions, last Sunday, a few hours before the arrest, a young newlywed couple came to the rabbi for a counseling session. During the session the rabbi asked the husband to leave the room and took advantage of the situation to sexually assault the bride.

The couple immediately filed a complaint against the rabbi at the local police station and police arrested him later that day. The rabbi chose to retain his right to silence and refused to cooperate with the police.

Sources familiar with the investigation told Ynet that the rabbi has no criminal record and no complaints had previously been filed against him.

A day after his arrest, the Jerusalem Magistrates Court released the rabbi into house arrest for five days under limited terms, which include a restraining order and a ban on making any contact with the complainants.


"After turning to me, he told me that his silence comes from the privilege he has by law as a religious minister hearing a confession," Tovol's defense lawyer Yehuda Shushan said after the hearing.

He noted that "after the privilege was broken by the complainant herself he agreed to cooperate with the police and told them the progression of events with the woman who is the wife of his good friend. Extremely intimate confessions were shared in the meeting, she obviously had concerns that he would leak the info, regretted her actions and decided to turn the tables on him so he would fear her. Hence, she took this despicable step of making a false complaint." 
    

4/06/2011

דער וועד הצניעות רודערט שוין ווייטער - The Vaad HaTznius Is Here Again

   
רבותי! וואס האב איך ענק געזאגט? די צניעות שרייערס זענען די גרעסטע מנובלים, למשל ווי חעמיע וועבערמאן. דער אינגערמאנטשיק וואס דרייט די פיאה יואלי צימערמאן, זאג מער יואלי, וויפיל קינדער האסטע שוין מטמא געווען אין צעהלימער חדר? די באלעבאסטע פין געשעפט איז א חצופה? דו ביסט א נואף און מאלעסטער, דו וועסט ענדיגען צוזאם מיט חעמיע וועבערמאן.
     ב"ה היינט מיטוואך איז שוין געווען פאליציי, און זיי האבען שוין נישט געשריגען, זיי זענען געווען שטיל ווי דע לעמעלעך.
     איך וויל וויסען וואס ווילען זיי? די פרויען זאלען פארען קיין מאנהעטען נאך זייערע שייטלעך, וואס איז, דיין ווייב האט נישט קיין שייטעל שטעלסטע דיך אוועק לעבען א שייטעל סטאר זאלסט קענען קיקען אויף אנדערע פרויען וואס האבען יא אן א שייטעל? זיי נישט קיין צבואק, דו און דיינע חברים זענען א חברה מנובלים. איך וויל דערמאנען דעם עולם  אז דער באוואוסטער נואף וואס האט מאנס געווען זיינע טעכטער און האט באקימען 30 יאר תפיסה (דער וואס משה גרין פון מאנסי איז עהם געפארען וויזיטען), ער האט אויכעט אמאל פארברענט א געשעפט אין וויליאמסבורג וועגען צניעות.
Rabbosai! What did I tell you? Those that yell tznius are the biggest menuvolim, for instance Nechemye Weberman. The young man that is twirling his payeh Yoeli Zimmerman, tell me Yoeli, how many kids did you molest in the Tzehlimer cheder? The owner of the shop is a chatzufeh? You are a noef and molester, you'll end up together with Nechemye Weberman.
     Thank G-D today Wednesday the police were there, so they were quiet and behaved like sheep.
     I would like to know what they want? Should the women travel to Manhattan for their wigs? What's the matter? your wife doesn't wear a sheitel so your stand near a sheitel store to look at other women that do wear sheitels? Don't be a hypocrite, you and  the like of yours  are a bunch of menuvolim. I want to remind the oilam that Y. M. Weingarten, that is serving 30 years for raping his daughter (and Moshe Green of Monsey went to visit him in jail) also torched a store in Williamsburg for supposedly  tznius issues.
   
 אין בארא פארק איז דא א כשר פלאץ
   

ווער גלייבט איר נישט? - ?Who Doesn't Believe Her

   
דער בריעף איז נעכטען ערשינען אויף Failed Messiah, פארשטייט זעך אז אינזערע פרומע שרייען באלד אז שמרי' ראזענבערג (נישט קיין קרוב מיט מיר) האט עס אויסגעטראכט וויייל ער האט פיינט חרדים, וויל איך ענק זאגען אז ניין, ער האט עס נישט אויסגעטראכט, איך האב עס נישט גענימען פין עהם, איך האב עס גענימען פין דעם זעלבען email פין ווי ער האט עס גענימען, עס קימט פין א ערענסטען חרדישער דאקטער, א אקטיוויסט און עקספערט אין דער וועלט פין "מאלעסטינג", ער האט עס געשיקט צי אסאך "חשובע" מענטשען, אבער קיינער האט זיך נישט וויסענדיג געמאכט, נאר שמרי' ראזענבערג.
     באשולדיגט מיך נישט אז איך בין מסכים מיט אלעס וואס ער שרייבט, גלייבט מיר אבער אז ווען אינץ וואלטען זיך אויפגעפירט ווי עס פאסט זיך פאר פרומען אידען, וואלט ער און אסאך אנדערע געהאט דרך ארץ פאר אינץ און נישט באליידיגט. ווי עס שטייט אין חז"ל: (מסכת בבא בתרא דף טו עמוד ב') וא"ר יוחנן, מאי דכתיב: ויהי בימי שפוט השופטים, דור ששופט את שופטיו, אומר לו: טול קיסם מבין (עיניך) [שיניך], אומר לו: טול קורה מבין עיניך... רש"י: ששופט את שופטיו - שהיו השופטין עצמן מקולקלים והיה פתחון פה לנשפט להוכיח את מוכיחו, שאם אמר לו השופט טול קיסם מבין עיניך הסתלק ופרוש מעבירה קטנה שבידך, יכול זה לומר טול קורה מבין עיניך פרוש מעבירה חמורה שבידך.
This letter was posted yesterday on Failed Messiah, and of course many of our frummers were crying that Shmarya made it up because of his agenda with chareidim.  I want to tell you that he DID NOT MAKE IT UP. We both got it from the same source. It was sent by email to a long list of people, including news outlets and so called gedolim. However, no one else acted on it except for Shmarya Rosenberg (who is not related to me).
     Don't accuse me of agreeing with Shmarya’s whole agenda. I don’t! But on this matter he is right.  People are upset that he insults frum yidden. I believe that when we behave correctly, the way frum yidden should behave, he and many others would respect us, and definitely would not insult us. As Chaza"l tell us (Bava basra 15b and other places) "R. Johanan further said: What is the importance of the words, ‘And it came to pass in the days of the judging of the judges?’ It was a generation that judged its judges. If the judge said to a man, 'Take the splinter from between your teeth, he would answer, 'Take the beam from between your eyes..."
        
To those who do not care,
I am a young women of 25 from what is to be considered an ultra orthodox home and community.
I AM A SURVIVOR. And as you should be well aware, The horrors of growing up in a home which was unsafe and still till this day remains so are none like you can imagine. From being physically and emotionally being abused by my parents teachers and peers to having been orally raped and molested by my older brother for a number of years and god knows what else happened in that house, to finding out my younger brother has been abusing other children amongst them my baby sister. I have learned some hard lessons and one of those is that the jew is not my friend, this so kindly taught to me by you my fellow jew.
My father walked in on my brother undressing me I was about 12 yrs old and my brother was unbuttoning my shirt not a commendable act for any boy or man to be doing to a child and definitely not something a yeshiva boy shoud be doing. My father took my brother and walked him out of the house and went to finish his shmone esrai he never said a word to me. When he finished davening he went to find my brother walked him around the block and gave him a little speech what was said I will never know. Yet the one thing I do know is noone ever said a word to me I remember hiding under a pile of freshly washed clothes in a laundry basket for hours until my grandparents who were with us for pesach started wondering where I was. This my friend is what I think about every pesach here comes another holiday I cannot enjoy a holiday where we should be celebrating our freedom and all the miracles god has done for us and continues to do for us. And all I want is to not have to celebrate not have to sit at someone elses table not have to put on a smile. Just this one year I want to sit home and not have to pretend to care abt something I do not. Instead I sit in a strangers home at a strangers table year after year hoping I will enjoy just a bit of this freedom. Instead I have memories of a penis stuffed down my throat of horror and dread of anger and guilt of shame and hatred.
I have never said this to anyone before in fact the most anyone has ever heard is yes I was abused by my brother yes I have a witness and no there is no statute of limitations, but my father who has failed miserably at protecting me still holds himself on the wrong side of the fence. He wants so badly to believe his sons are innocent he, like so many others have been twisting the knife that was stuck in my back so many years ago over and over and over again.
Thus some years later I felt I was ready to make sure my other siblings were safe, that my parents could no longer continue to emotionally and physically abuse and neglect them so I went to Rabbi S. at the suggestion of someone who was very close to me. Requesting Rabbi S's help in making sure the younger 2 would be safe. I tell Rabbi S I need his help and he tells me its to late. How do you think i feel Rabbi S when i come to you to ask you to take the children out of the home and you tell me its to late? Its to late because my younger brother is abusing other children including my sister. Rabbi S how do you think I felt knowing I was a survivor myself when you told me this? Did you ever call or check to see I as ok? Did you see what you could do? No instead I had to go and make the call when I heard my parents talking abt sending him off to another country the call you should have made to the authorities.
Rabbi A. when I called you asking you to stop him from getting on that plane and you promised me you would and yet you did not, How did you think I felt?
Therapist H. why did you not call the authorities when I told you he was leaving this country to make sure he cannot harm others and how can you Therapist H. as well ignore my request ignore the children our future and let my parents send him off so proudly to an unknowing yeshiva where guess what he may be still abusing children? Yet for some reason you all allowed this to happen allowed a child molester to leave the country and to continue on his path of destroying our future.
Yes for the first time in my life I am blaming you My parents supposed Rabbi's , Teachers, and many a bad therapist, as not one of you has shown me that I can trust rely or expect anything different than more abuse.
Tonight I want to free myself of this and I R am handing over this terrible guilt, and shame I carry with me to you. As you whos job it is to protect the children and did not do so are the ones who should be ashamed and feel guilty, not I.
I want to walk away and say its over I have no reason to look over my shoulder no reason to be afraid anymore. They cannot hurt me anymore. As I am safe I am a survivor and they will never hurt me again.
How is all this supposed to make a person feel? how is it supposed to help me keep faith in humanity at all? After being treated like an outcast for so many years unwanted and left out on the streets like a can of worms. Where where you bretheren? Where are you now? As time goes by and i get older i keep coming to the same realization that calling ourselves the chosen nation shouldnt we be taking care of our future generations shouldnt we hold the children in the highest regard like god does? On chanuka who did they send out to war the young ones uner bar and bat mitzva age why? Because there is something in the kol of yeladim. How can we call ourselves better than others when we cannot find it in ourselves to defend our children against monsters against
I would like for you to make me understand why you stand down, how are you not ashame to walk the streets after all the things you have done and continue to do to protect my abuser and those of hundreds of other jewish children? How can you look at yourself in the mirror and not be disgusted by what u see? yes you have the apearance of an ehrliche yid and yes you have the name to but tell me make me understand how you can leave children mere children crying in their beds at night afraid of who may visit them who will threaten them next and who will take what little dignity they have left how can you sit idly by and watch as you and your friends kill hundreds of innocent young yidishe kinderlach every single day whether it be by shunning  them and their families who only want to protect our precious diamonds. how can you sit silently and watch as we destroy our own ppl our own future? we my dear friends are no better than hitler in fact we may be worse as we are destroying our own children our own flesh and blood.